Kiss My Love Goodbye

Trust me #114
Kiss My Love Goodbye by Bettye Swann

Bettye Swann's Kiss My Love Goodbye recently came on while I was playing my Never Ending Mixtape. I must admit to being taken by surprise, it sounded familiar, but I'd forgotten it! I must have played the song at least a dozen times over the next few days. And I have been playing it regularly ever since.

As I tend to say when I fall for a song - this is an absolute gem! Kiss My Love Goodbye is on Swann's Complete Atlantic Recordings album, one that I have just vowed to order on vinyl after blasting it out regularly and dancing around our kitchen.

In fact, I've been playing this song so much that my youngest daughter Rosie now recognises it and sings along to the hook!

Swann released her debut single at the age of 20 in 1964, having already performed in a trio. Swann was one of 14 children - so if she wanted any attention she had to stand out. Her voice might have helped!

The 60's saw Swann have some success with singles like Make Me Yours, which topped the Billboard R&B chart in 1967, the Summer of Love. There was also a trilogy of albums.

Swann signed to Atlantic Records in 1972 but only seemed to release 7 singles due to label politics. The Complete Atlantic Recordings brings together 23-tracks, everything she recorded for Atlantic, including 7 previously unreleased songs.

So check the full album out, but start with Kiss My Love Goodbye! Incredibly, this was a b-side! It was on the flip of 1974's The Boy Next Door.

Kiss My Love Goodbye shimmers into life with a drum roll, lush strings and then Swann begins singing as the beat kicks in over CHIC style rhythm guitar. 

What a groove! I can imagine this packing floors at a northern soul night thanks to the sweeping, cinematic strings. The production and feel in the recording is sublime, it hits the sweet spot. 

Swann's vocals are super cool, delivering a lyric about finishing a broken relationship and moving on with a coolness that feels empowering rather than heartbreaking. Her voice rises at all the right times. Swann doesn't wanna hear any sweet talkin' from the guy who has done her wrong. She is leaving, outta there - just ease on out of my way.

The next verse is great, Swann telling him she saw him with her own eyes, also admitting that if she hadn't, she might have fallen for his lies - again! 

I admit you were slick

You sure played it cool

I may be a little slow learning

But Mama didn't raise no fool

 The little flourish and lift in the strings into the next section/verse is seamless. Swann is in the zone, telling him like it is. I love the flow and emphasis on the last line.

The taxi is waiting, I've heard your sad song

About the time you realise I'm leaving

That's the time I'll be long gone

The Supremes-y guitar break here over the strings is glorious. And then there is the kiss off chorus.

So you can kiss my love goodbye

You can kiss my love goodbye

It's a cool, cold day to you know where

You can kiss my love goodbye

Ooft what a tune. There is another run through the verses above and into a final couple of choruses, the backing vocals are sublime and Swann really sounds like she is super happy singing this song.

Kiss My Love Goodbye is added to my Trust Me playlist; search for Everything Flows - Trust Me on Spotify or CLICK HERE. Check below for all previous blogs in my Trust Me series.

Previous Trust Me blogs

1. Something On Your Mind by Karen Dalton

1A. Crimson and Clover by Tommy James and the Shondells

2. I Am, I Said  by Neil Diamond

3. Where's The Playground Susie?   by Glen Campbell

4. If You Could Read My Mind by Gordon Lighfoot

5. Gimme Some Truth by John Lennon

6. Gone With The Wind Is My Love by Rita and the Tiaras

7. In The Year 2525 by Zager and Evans

8. The Music Box by Ruth Copeland

9. The Ship Song by Nick Cave

10. Sometimes by James

11. I Walk The Earth by King Biscuit Time

12. Didn't Know What I Was In For by Better Oblivion Community Centre

13. When My Boy Walks Down The Street by The Magnetic Fields

14. The Man Don't Give A F**k by Super Furry Animals

15. All Flowers In Time Bend Towards The Sun by Jeff Buckley and Liz Fraser

16. Are You Lookin' by The Tymes

17. A Real Hero by College & Electric Youth

18. Feelings Gone by Callum Easter

19. Sunday Morning by The Velvet Underground

20. Did I Say by Teenage Fanclub

21. Don't Look Back by Teenage Fanclub

22. Your Love Is The Place Where I Come From by Teenage Fanclub

23. Belfast by Orbital

24. Clouds by The Jayhawks

25. Dreaming Of You by The Coral

26. Everlasting Love by Love Affair

27. Walk Away Renee by The Left Banke

28. Teenage Kicks by The Undertones

29. Shaky Ground by Sneeze

29. Rill Rill by Sleigh Bells

30. I Can Feel Your Love by Felice Taylor

31. The State We're In by The Chemical Brothers w/ Beth Orton

32. Sunshine After The Rain by Ellie Greenwich

33. Losing My Edge by LCD Soundsystem

34. Mondo 77 by Looper

35. Les Fleurs by Minnie Riperton

36. Rat Trap by The Boomtown Rats

37. How High by The Charlatans

38. I Can't Let Go by Evie Sands

39. Pop Song 89 by R.E.M.

40. Summertime Clothes by Animal Collective

41. There She Goes by The Las

42. We're Going To Be Friends by White Stripes

43. Autumn Sweater by Yo La Tengo

44. Sister Rena by Lomond Campbell

45. Revolution by The Beatles

46. Lazarus by The Boo Radleys

47. Wrote For Luck by Happy Mondays

48. American Trilogy by The Delgados

49. Loser by Beck 

50. Silent Sigh by Badly Drawn Boy

51. Comedy by Shack

52. Take The Skinheads Bowling by Camper Van Beethoven

53. Freakscene by Dinosaur Jr

54. Thank You For Being You by The Pastels

55. I Think I'm In Love by Spiritualized

56. Chestnut Mare by The Byrds

57. Cannonball by The Breeders

58. Like A Rolling Stone by Bob Dylan

59. You Make Me Weak At The Knees by Electrelane

60. Lucky by Radiohead

61. Strange Currencies by R.E.M.

61. I Am The Cosmos by Chris Bell

62. Like A Ship (Without A Sail) by Pastor TL Barrett and the Youth for Christ Choir

63. Nothing But A Heartache by The Flirtations

64. Made of Stone by The Stone Roses

65. Tonight In Belfast by Orbital, David Holmes, DJ Helen and Mike Garry

66. Anything by Adrianne Lenker

67. I Hold Something In My Hand by Bill Ryder-Jones

68. I Meant Every Word by Burnett Sisters

69. Dream Baby Dream by Suicide

70. Stove by The Lemonheads

71. Red Lady by Phil Cordell

72. Little Fluffy Clouds by The Orb

73. I Can Do It With A Broken Heart by Taylor Swift

74. Turnin' My Heartbeat Up by The M.V.P.'s

75. Razzle Dazzle Rose by Camera Obscura

76. Such Great Heights by The Postal Service

77. The Rat by The Walkmen

78. My God Has A Telephone by Aaron Frazer

79. Unfinished Sympathy by Massive Attack

80. Sweet and Tender Romance by The McKinleys

81. Hoppipolla by Sigur Ros

82. 69 Police by David Holmes

83. Hey Lisa by David Holmes

84. I Am A Rock by Simon & Garfunkel

85. Kung Fu by Ash

86. Kids by MGMT

87. Slight Return by The Bluetones

88. Give Peace A Chance by John Lennon / Plastic Ono Band

89. Cut Your Hair by Pavement

90. Race for the Prize by The Flaming Lips

91. Waitin' for a Superman by The Flaming Lips

92. Acquiesce by Oasis

93. This Is Music by The Verve

94. Lone Swordsman by Daniel Avery

95. Sparky's Dream by Teenage Fanclub

96. Common People by Pulp

97. Let Our Love Grow Higher by Eula Cooper

98. Regret by New Order

99. Keep On Keepin' On by Nolan Porter

100. Sit Down by James (Live at G-Mex) by James

101. Never Lose Your Sense Of Wonder by Yeti

102. Just When You're Thinkin' Things Over by The Charlatans

103. Life Is Sweet by The Chemical Brothers 

104. How Can I Tell You (To Love Me More) by Brooke Coombe

105-107. Wigan Casino - Three Before Eight - Time Will Pass You By by Tobi Legend, Long After Tonight Is All Over by Jimmy Radcliffe, I'm On My Way by Dean Parrish

108. Cobra by Geese

109. All I Have To Do Is Dream by The Everly Brothers

110. Vapour Trail by Ride

111. Teardrop by Massive Attack

112. Since I Left You by The Avalanches

113. Good Dancers by The Sleepy Jackson